I'm trying to think if I know anyone who always wins and never loses, and of course I don't. Even so, it's true that some people seem to be "luckier" than others. It's as if they really do have the Midas touch. Whatever they undertake appears to prosper and they make it look incredibly easily. When they make an investment, it gives a great return in record time. If they enter a contest, they win -- hands down. If they learn a new skill, such as cooking or biking, they become experts overnight. While the rest of us are trudging along in their dust, doing our best to make it to mediocre, they sail ahead, occasionally looking back as if to ask, "What's keeping you?"
If we looked closely, I'm sure we would find lots of setbacks in the lives of those "lucky" people, but they aren't obvious, on the surface. That's partly because we make assumptions about how easy things are for them, which is due, in part, to their own attitudes. They believe things are good, no matter the struggle or the immediate outcome.
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