Dear Mr. Dad: I am 74 years old and handicapped. My 43-year-old daughter moved in to my house with her boyfriend and was supposed to help me with basic caregiving. But instead, the two of them have turned my house into a dump, destroying my furniture, damaging the walls, and more. I made the mistake of giving my daughter access to my checking account so she could help me with paying bills and, instead, she's stealing money from me. I think she may also have opened up some credit cards in my name. I've told them several times to leave, but every time I do, she either hits me or threatens to put me in a facility. I'm afraid and don't know what to do.